Sorry to hear about your problems, your husband must support you. Do change yr e mail,it's annoying but it will be worth it. Also British police are different from the police you are perhaps used to. keep the e mails, and take them to your local police station when you get to the u.k. and register your concern. they will take your situation seriously, and this could be thought as "a race crime" which is very serious in u.k. good luck