Originally Posted by adam&chryss
That's disgusting
Keith - Administrator
i cannot imagine you, with your head on you mums lap
God grant me the serenity to accept the things i cannot change, the courage to change the things i can and the wisdom to hide the bodies of those people i had to kill because they pissed me off.
Interesting replies...thanks everyone!
Beginning to wonder where i went wrong with my kids sometimes although i'm sure all parents must wonder if they are doing it right.
About 8 years ago now my first wife died after a very long illness during which i was her carer. After her death itook the decision to stop work to care for their needs for the next 2 years after which i worked just part time. The kids were 15, 13 and 7 at the time and obviously the elder two were affected quite badly by the loss of their mother. I did everything i could for them and now on reflection, maybe too much as now i think they expect everything. When their mother was alive she did everything for them so naturally i decided to do the same as anyone else would in my circumstances.
Now they are older (youngest is 15) i want my life back and am fortunate enough to have married a filipina and looking forward to our life together.
My kids are OK but i do feel they are selfish , dont seem to have much respect and have no morals...none of the things i believe are important and have tried hard to teach them are important.
My husband is so close to his Mom and vice versa.
Sometimes I feel he is mama's boy at 51.
I asked him one day and he was very angry.
But if he will admit, I will surely understand.
I admit, I'm bit mama's girl and everytime I visit her, I used to lay down my head in her lap and fast asleep.
My youngest brother, he couldn't sleep without touching my Nanay nipple before he sleep until he reached grade school. He's now in his 30's and very close to my Nanay.
I have also a friend and co worker before. I invited her in our house and we sleep together.
I was suddenly awoke because she was touching my nipple.
I was angry asked her but she said she used to do that with her Mom even in her 20's.
She is really a nice girl but not at night.
I sometimes wonder,if the root of the problem in western culture lies in the fact that so many women are trying [not always successfully]
to balance a career with being mothers ... a practice increasingly encouraged, through incentives offered by the governments of the day, for women to return to work after say, 3 months' statutory maternity leave.
Consequently, all too often, very young children spend much of their formative years in the care of 'childminders' ... resulting in their being deprived of the natural maternal contact that is so essential at such a crucial stage in their growth and development ... and frequently ending up in their becoming "latch-key" kids - left to fend for themselves - upon attaining school-age.
Ultimately, by the time they reach their teens, these youngsters are, by virtue of the lack of proper attention they ought to be receiving at home, find themselves free to roam the streets seeking ... and indulging in ... all sorts of deviant pastimes to relieve their sheer boredom. It seems clear to me, that it's all part of a vicious circle!
In every culture there is good and bad, I admire the close relationship within families, the extended network of help and support that is more common in The Philippines than the U.K. However, most people here i have met have scars from being hit by something ( a belt or clothes hanger perhaps) by their mother or father This teaches them love and respect.... The children are passed from "sister" to "sister" no coherence Nothing is ever that simple. We have a dependency (or a reliance) on the state to provide. Here, there is only the family. We should both learn from each other, we should take their happiness in the face of REAL problems and they should take our?????? National Debt?
Bless!
I've been trying to keep abreast with this thread
I have also a friend and co worker before. I invited her in our house and we sleep together.
I was suddenly awoke because she was touching my nipple.
I was angry asked her but she said she used to do that with her Mom even in her 20's.
She is really a nice girl but not at night.
I have two "kids" now in their early 20's and although I'm divorced spent much time with them before they left home. I'm sure it's time spent with parents during the formative years that counts. I can't now control what my kids do with their lives, but I'm always here for them and because of that bonding in the early years they always keep in touch (but not the way Penny describes)
I was suddenly awoke because she was touching my nipple.[SIZE="3"]I've been trying to keep abreast with this thread
I've been trying to keep abreast with this thread
I have two "kids" now in their early 20's and although I'm divorced spent much time with them before they left home. I'm sure it's time spent with parents during the formative years that counts. I can't now control what my kids do with their lives, but I'm always here for them and because of that bonding in the early years they always keep in touch (but not the way Penny describesWe call it mannerism Doc and Arth.
Most children who used to have breast feeding from their Mom developed mannerism. I don't know but sometimes baby couldn't sleep without breasfeeding on the right breast whilst other hand of baby is at her mother's left breast. It is their habits sometimes and developed mannerism
They started to develop bad mannerism during their childhood.
I have also friend who got her mannerism sucking her thumb until we reached high school. During our elementary early days, she was still carrying her feeding bottle. She stopped but, but developed sucking her thumb.
Men tend to find something to suck until the day they die....I have also friend who got her mannerism sucking her thumb until we reached high school. During our elementary early days, she was still carrying her feeding bottle. She stopped but, but developed sucking her thumb.
Keith - Administrator
wysiwyg onced you've married.
True, and it's taken me all my life to discover it's called a mannerism
A very "touching" post!I have two "kids" now in their early 20's and although I'm divorced spent much time with them before they left home. I'm sure it's time spent with parents during the formative years that counts. I can't now control what my kids do with their lives, but I'm always here for them and because of that bonding in the early years they always keep in touch (but not the way Penny describesBut ...
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