Our visa pitfalls

[joebloggs]

1 She sent my email that i wrote to her. but not her e-mails that she sent to me.

did she send any chatlogs ?

2 I am divorced and live in the marital home. They wanted letter from ex wife stating that she had no objections to my wife and I living there.

as the house is in yours and your ex's. fair enough to ask for that.

3 I am still paying the mortage and the house is in both my mine and my ex names.The mortage is linked to my bank accounts. These accounts are still in mine and my ex names and can not be changed (my ex does not used or want to use these accounts).They wanted a letter from my ex stating that she does not use these accounts.

again fair enough to ask that.

4 From my previous marriage I have two children. They wanted a letter from my ex stating that she is and does not intend on asking me to support her or my children. At present I do not and my ex does not want me to.

i suppose if you mention in your letter of support you don't support them, then they want evidence of that.

My ex willingly wrote a letter to cover all of these points. I also got the bank to write a letter also saying that this was the case with the mortage. My wife supplied her e-mails.I wrote a letter to explain everything also.My wife also wrote a letter to explain everything also.

good job your still on speaking terms

bit more planning it could have been avoided
did you go to appeal or did the ECO manger over turn the refusal ?

good your wife got her visa in the end