don't forget there may also be a cultural issue, especially those working in care homes who see the older generation sent away to be looked after at arms length - i.e. not by their families - this may cause them to disrespect the British approach to caring for their parents when they become old - it is quite sad really.
We all have our own opinions of what's right and as long as you know why you're here and happy with that, then just smile through it...
