I can't really understand, why anyone would bother to upload a video like that to youtube.
Of course, if you are trying to establish a relationship & you find you're being scammed you're going to be well off & quite rightly.

Something is just bothering me at the moment...when you know how little, some people are paid, not nearly enough to live on, maybe you can see why some resort to it.

I know it's not right, but it's just the way I feel at the moment.