hi help needed , we are trying to fill the forms in for a fiancee visa for my female partner to come to england but are stuck,the part about dates to come here and flights and arranging the marrige , are the dates fexible or what i put down are set in stone,do i have to book the flight and pay for it before applying for the visa,and what if they refuse do i lose the money for the flight, and the date for the wedding also if they refuse i will lose the deposit, we have sorted everything else out we think a years worth of telephone calls ,bt skype and rebtel, pictures of us together in the phils lots of dates ,bank details can i remove my accont number and sort code before sending them or is it safe any other imformation would be great thanks steve