Who's the daddy?

[joebloggs]

, but a birth date of 18th jan would normally suggest she became pregnant btw 30 march and 30 april

i should have said at the earliest 30 march - thats presuming her pregnancy went over due to 42 wks , but more likely if she went around the normal 38 wks that means it would have been around the 27th of april she became pregnant but i hope i'm wrong Gary

thats if i've got my sums right

[GaryFifer]

i should have said at the earliest 30 march - thats presuming her pregnancy went over due to 42 wks , but more likely if she went around the normal 38 wks that means it would have been around the 27th of april she became pregnant but i hope i'm wrong Gary

thats if i've got my sums right

Thanks Joe, I think counting 42 weeks back it is always April. I was not there.

Jessica side of it..example..I sent flowers to her hospital at January I got sworn at over the phone. She told me I know you send them to another girl.

Jessica side of it is one of victim and jealously.Gary will leave me. She is a manipulator- uses that same phrase to me -I know you leave me. It has been abusive, selfish relationship. I do not deserve that.

I give emotional, financial support and she takes. But I get nothing back. I get phone calls about problems and I have to solve them. Jessica says she hard life and I do not know what it is like in the Philippines. Shes better off than most Filipinos.

Do not make excuses for any behaviour that makes you feel bad Just been too soft.

[South-east boy]

Doctors won't let a baby stay in the womb over 42 weeks as the placenta starts to fail and it can be dangerous due to sceptic poisoning which could even cause death in the worst cases.

[aromulus]

The most upsetting thing for me, would be if she had been living it up with a boy friend all along, apart from the few weeks you spent together.

You do not deserve this kind of hassle, mate.
You dumped the obviously deceitful, conniving and ungrateful woman and hope that you cease all contact.

Do not give hope, tho.

This bad experience should not put you off Filipinas, as they do really make wonderful life companions and wives.

[Sim11UK]

All I can say is, I'm really sorry, she has lead you on for so long.

Seems like she's had an easy ride, whilst you have had to struggle to support her. Looks like you & the kid, will lose out due to her deceit.

[Steve.r]

I am shocked and sorry that you have been treated this way Gary. From reading the thread through it certainly appears you are not the father. You have the choice as I see it to sever all contact, which could be hard for you as it seems you have feelings of responsibility, or go there to find out the truth. Both hard to do, I think you feel wrenched in both ways.

We as advisors and onlookers can only wish you well and peace over this situation. Work out what you need to do for yourself and don't feel selfish.

Steve

[aposhark]

Gary,

I posted on another thread and will mention it on this one too that it would be a good idea to have your password changed here.

Brgds