Sorry to hear that you've gone through. It sounds very stressful and can't have helped your health if it hasn't been 100 %. From that letter from the 'friend' it's like she is saying that you are causing her to go hungry & lose weight!
I agree about the Dna test, but can't imagine that it would be easy to sort if you're over here and Jessica doesn't want it or does all she can to avoid it (which I think she would do of she knows or honestly thinks that the boy isn't yours). Would they be able to do it with some hair samples from the boy and yours? Quite how you'd get some of his hair though I don't know if Jessica isn't willing.
