Originally Posted by Arthur Little
... just curious ... are YOU, by any [normal] stretch of the imagination, the husband of the lady known as 'sars notd virus' - otherwise Mari Russell??
Excuse me Gentlemen...''Though shall not use my NAME in VAIN'' please
and
Mr Notavirusalso..can u explain this further please??
''Don't be serious..Be Sincere''
I have a feeling that jealousy and trust issues in marriage to a Filipina will mostly not be mentioned here.
People have problems with visas and flights mostly.
Not many will admit to having other problems.
We won't know the full story for this reason in my opinion
[QUOTE=sars_notd_virus;212391]Excuse me Gentlemen...''Though shall not use my NAME in VAIN'' please
and
Mr Notavirusalso..can u explain this further please?
Good moring ppl.. My name is Dave Russell and yes i am the husband of the Beautifull Mari
the quote about the crap ppl getting good life ect... was just a translation....genrally i dont give a toss about other ppl as long as they dont effect my life ( which is why i hate most politicians and no im have no jealousy or envy about them)
And the bit about the laundry ..unfortuantly we are not together at the moment so that was just a tease.....
I was just translating a previous post.......I personally trust my Wife implicitly or else i wouldnt of married her II refer the gentleman to the previous comments by sars. "about how the roughly crap ppl seem to get a good life while good ppl seem to spend all their time avoiding the crap"
This is jealously too. As you are are comparing yourself to another, which is not the right thing to do. We each much make our own path through life.If our partner is jealous,or does not trust us it is not good. They might be pain, but should you have to suffer for what happened to them?
Trust over long distance is difficult and I would give the best advice to anyone, keep regular letters, photos of her and her friends and family. Know everything you possibly can while looking into these pics. But that is only a snapshot of someones life.
Now with every Filipino having a digital camera on their phones, there really is no excuse not to get photos about their life, their habits and no lies. If she asks for emergency money, ask her for a picture of hospital if its true. Only fair right? Sounds cruel, but hey, if you want truth, no Filipino should hide what they have been doing.
Filipinos think, because us Westerners have PCs, we are up to something.
Jessica, always wanted me to speak to her everyday for over 5 hrs on cam. I mean. What does she think I will do if I am not with herPressure like that is not healthy. Enjoy your time together, have fun, send each other silly jokes, stories, and learn about the differences in culture.
Learn each others language which always is fun.I never did that.
her
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Well Explained!! Thank you hubby
''Don't be serious..Be Sincere''
Fait accompli!
I need no longer indulge my natural sense of curiosity ...
, Mari & Dave.
Nice thread I think from personal experience that Pings point about insecurity is the big key here
The fear of loosing or having something taken away is a general theme here in the Fils from things ive seen and heard when someone has experienced a life thats hard and survival dominated they may not even be aware of how frightened they are/have been and it may manifest in a range of behaviour including jealousy mistrust and the ability to lie easily to avoid percieved penalties even if there is no foundation in the moment.
I have also read this is a feature of peoples colonised by the Spanish and considered ok to lie in order to avoid punishment I would rather have to deal with the fear openly expressed which I can chose to understand and support than the loss of trust with lies and inapropriate and compensatory behaviour I will keep
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I have to live with her now
.... can't you say my point is better
... it'll make life sooooo much easier
Keith - Administrator
Ping said it was a only a little point
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I have a feeling that jealousy and trust issues in marriage to a Filipina will mostly not be mentioned here.
We won't know the full story for this reason in my opinion
Words of wisdom!!
None of them will mention their jealousy issues here..
My bro in law is tracked by his wifes spies via text where ever he goes..
Occasionally I lend him my blacked out motor cycle helmet so that he can escape unnoticed..Never works!!
Very ordinary emotion here from what I have seen...
From one who lives in the Phils all the time, I believe you Fred
So when did she see yours then?Ping said it was a only a little point
Keith - Administrator
ur welcome sir
''Don't be serious..Be Sincere''
all humans feel jealous and doubtful at times..its normal. that's part of us being human. If u read the Bible GOD get jealous as well....what really count is how you express those feelings
My wife never trusted, me when i used to go to Angeles for the weekend.Trust | Jealousy
Two words, and probably jointly responsible for more relationship break-ups than anything else.
If you see these early in a relationship, take them as a warning that things may get worse.
My wifey is fine with me (is she behind me?
Note: If you watch porn make it very clear to the woman that when the camera cuts..... the guy is actually having a break and doesn't do it non-stop for 2 hours
If you think your other half isbehind your back, then even if they are not (and in most cases they aren't) then they may as well
as they are getting blamed for it anyway!
I'm sure others have plenty to add to this
Just encase you read this wifey ther was non of thisMy wife never trusted, me when i used to go to Angeles for the weekend.I think i mite end up in a
Next time i see her
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