I have been wondering the same thing - but it is my husband who will arrive ( i have bought sugar, so he can have horribly sweet coffee). I have a few foody things to make him feel at home, but can only find maasim datu puti vinegar which is no good for adobo! I am worried he will feel even more awkward as a man - at the CFO they were really suprised that he is there with a settlement visa - but our daughter has 2+ weeks off school and I will have 3 day working weeks for the first few weeks to break him in gently - hope this works!