Orgasm usually means the intense sensation of pleasure at the climax of sexual activity, by stimulation of the clitoris and penis (with ejaculation). But definitions vary and of course the stimulation can be by self or partner. By no means do all women (or men) achieve orgasm ("come") during intercourse; they may choose to "fake" it with or without the partner knowing. That is the point - provided both partners are satisfied (happy) with lovemaking then orgasm is not essential for either or both. "I'll make you the happiest man in the world" is what we want to hear ...but "I'll make you the happiest woman in the world" should also be our aim , however it is achieved
