Win2win,

I don't like your accuse of not thinking straight...
I'm keen to accept advices, not judgements.

Furthermore, your suggestion is not practicable, as she still has to BEGIN her annulment procedure, which we all know it takes far more than one year. So she CAN'T be here in a few months as u say maybe forgetting about that "small" detail...

And, sorry to disappoint you, I'm going to live there with no more than £ 200 per month.