I think maybe it would be better to send your intended the £100 via western union, im sure she wil be happier with that than being with someone that thinks its a game like the lotto planing on marrying etc.Then save your £100 again and go to butlins for a week, at least ther you wont get into serious trouble like immigration etc if you run out of money.Get real son if your thinking about going to philippines to get married.