im ready to give up at the moment, but i love her so i cant, well i cant get a visa because of number 3 below, does it mean that i have to prove that i have lots of money, 21 days it isthen, and would cost £22 for visa and £50 for train ticket down to london to collect visa, ill just stay 21 days and save alot of hastle ontop of all the hastle i already have

Short-stay Visa for Leisure/Tourism/Business

1. Completed Non-Immigrant Visa application form
2. Passport valid for at least 6 months beyond the intended period of stay in the Philippines and a photocopy of its data page
3. Proof of financial capability to assure the maintenance of bona fide tourist status during the intended stay in the Philippines (e.g. certificate of bank deposits, pension benefits, or employment certificates)
4. Proof of address (e.g. utility bills)
5. In case of businessmen, letter from sponsoring firm in the Philippines or in the UK stating the purpose of visit
6. One (1) passport photograph (4.5 cm x 3.5 cm)
7. Other documents that may be required by the consular officer