My attackers

[pennybarry]

I've been attacked by two members here for not having kids but tried to understand that kind of envy people.
If your reason to live is having children and attack those without like me,
Then IMHO stop believing in God and stop going to church. It's a waste of time.
As I told before, it is risky for me to have even one so I cannot produce babies like you do both.
I had two choices, to have or to die. So I prefer to live and enjoy life.
Kayo(my attackers) na lang manganak ng manganak because i cannot produce anymore.

Thanks for my four friends who sent PM to me and lifted me up. Not to worry, as penny still happy here.

A real Happy Easter to all members!

[triple5]

Saw one of those comments today, and thought it was a really cheap shot Take no notice, Penny

[Northerner]

Ignore them! Life is to be lived and enjoyed. When people are busy telling others how to live their life, it is usually because their own is lacking in some way

[Sim11UK]

It's none of anyones business whether you have kids or not.
We all have choices...shame on them.

[kimmi]

Happy Easter to u Te Penny..xxx

[cheeky]

don't worry penny your not alone..i can't have one too..due to some personal reason ....just don't mind them,,,,happy Easter,,,

[raynaputi]

just ignore them miss penny..don't stoop down to their level

[pennybarry]

Saw one of those comments today, and thought it was a really cheap shot Take no notice, Penny

Thanks Triple. Just moaning time for me.

Happy Easter to u Te Penny..xxx

Happy Easter Kimmi! I know how true your words are! Salamat

Ignore them! Life is to be lived and enjoyed. When people are busy telling others how to live their life, it is usually because their own is lacking in some way

Thanks Northener! Trying to ignore them but they are like ghosts following me attacking me not once but twice.

It's none of anyones business whether you have kids or not.
We all have choices...shame on them.

I have choice before, to have even one but still I believe in fate and God's will. Thanks Sim

don't worry penny your not alone..i can't have one too..due to some personal reason ....just don't mind them,,,,happy Easter,,,

Thanks Cheeky! We are not alone and there are many more! But they are happy still!

just ignore them miss penny..don't stoop down to their level

Thanks Rayna! Trying to understand low level peeps ehhh.

[maria_and_matt]

awww penny, don't mind them, stay happy ... mwah! have a good easter

[KeithD]

What annoys me is...... Penny has FOUR more friends than me

[Steve.r]

Penny, I did not see the comments made, and do not know who is involved, but from what I just read, you made a brave decision. No-one has the right to second question a life or death decision like that. Live your life as you will, be happy and contented.

Happy Easter

[pennybarry]

Penny, I did not see the comments made, and do not know who is involved, but from what I just read, you made a brave decision. No-one has the right to second question a life or death decision like that. Live your life as you will, be happy and contented.

Happy Easter

Very well said Steve. Muchos gracias!
I am very much contented.
I just don't know why they want me to be envied to them having children.

[KeithD]

I just don't know why they want me to be envied to them having children.

You can have my two retards.... I'll have them posted

[joebloggs]

You can have my two retards.... I'll have them posted

where are you sending me and dom this time
and wheres me pocket money


ignore them Laguna gal

[Doc Alan]

Penny, I did not see the comments made, and do not know who is involved, but from what I just read, you made a brave decision.

Happy Easter

Penny, I'm quoting Steve because I also don't know the background to this. But I've said before, you're an inspiration, and your posts are always worth reading. Ingat palagi

[pennybarry]

awww penny, don't mind them, stay happy ... mwah! have a good easter

Salamat Maria! Will do!
Been to my elderly friend and she told me to throw and roll eggs. Some do it during easter she said. I have no idea which eggs.
Real eggs? Chocolate eggs or my hubby's eggs.

What annoys me is...... Penny has FOUR more friends than me

Don't be jealous boss as everytime I add Facebook friends from forum, we always have one friend in common and that's you.

[somebody]

Penny Po from what I read of the good works you have done to help others over the years and continue to I have the upmost respect for you. No one should have a go at someone else untill they have walked in their shoes and understand thing from their point of view.

Hopefully with it being Easter weekend all the people involved can some how decide to get on with one another. Plenty of room in the world for love and respect but little room for hate and anger

Peace love and Easter Bunnies

[pennybarry]

You can have my two retards.... I'll have them posted

My husband said, he had four in his past and was a hardlife he's got.

Penny Po from what I read of the good works you have done to help others over the years and continue to I have the upmost respect for you. No one should have a go at someone else untill they have walked in their shoes and understand thing from their point of view.

Hopefully with it being Easter weekend all the people involved can some how decide to get on with one another. Plenty of room in the world for love and respect but little room for hate and anger

Peace love and Easter Bunnies

Wow Thanks Somebody. You made my heart fat
I had a long chat with my boss in my volunteering job today and she asked me what I really really want to do. To study more? To find a good job? I said I just want to help needy if i won in a lottery. She laughed ehhh.

Happy Easter Somebody.

[laurel]

Penny Po from what I read of the good works you have done to help others over the years and continue to I have the upmost respect for you. No one should have a go at someone else untill they have walked in their shoes and understand thing from their point of view.

I totally agree, life is hard enough , people should remember that when you point the finger ....take a look.....theres three fingers pointing back at you.

Its so easy to judge others without having a clue about the circumstances that surround it...........most of us here are aware of the heartache that goes with this territory of LDRs and other events that take place in life ...........last thing we need is self righteous ppl judging.
Lets encourage each other guys where we can.............

[estherboaz]

i like the way you handle the situation...eventhough you were attacked, you are still calm...

[pennybarry]

i like the way you handle the situation...eventhough you were attacked, you are still calm...

Thanks Easterboaz!
Been a production supervisor for 7 years handling 60 operators whom most of them union members and union officials. My senior sup said I'm going to give you all unionists. More terrible people on the first few months.

We had opposite views against management. But later on, we became close friends and after 20 years, we still all close together.
I don't closed my door to these people who attacks me. I'm just here people! Try me !

[pennybarry]

Penny and Rayna are now friends at Facebook.
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One friend in common:

[LadyJ]

Ate Penny, I think what they've said to you is too personal!! Anyway, you may have wrinkles or not and so what??? the important is you have a good heart, thats why you're lucky to have a good husband and family back home.

Ignore those bad people.. Just stay happy and keep smiling.

[KeithD]

Anyway, you may have wrinkles or not and so what???

I don't know where Penny has wrinkles but I'll take a damn good look for her if she asks! .....my wife's reading this thread!

[adam&chryss]

I salute you ate Penny!

If you have chosen to have a baby then you wouldn't be here.. it's hard to give birth then not knowing what will happen to your baby, who will take care of him/her and what life she/he will have without his/her mother. She/he might be surrounded by bad people like... you know who of course you wouldn't want that.

Even you don't have kids of your own, helping your pamangkins makes you a true mother and better than those who have kids but act like they are singles or no kids at all.

Just stay happy! xxx

[beppe]

After all is your private life and you don't owe any explanation to any one.

Having children is big commitment.

[beppe]

I've been attacked by two members here for not having kids but tried to understand that kind of envy people.
If your reason to live is having children and attack those without like me,
Then IMHO stop believing in God and stop going to church. It's a waste of time.
As I told before, it is risky for me to have even one so I cannot produce babies like you do both.
I had two choices, to have or to die. So I prefer to live and enjoy life.
Kayo(my attackers) na lang manganak ng manganak because i cannot produce anymore.

Thanks for my four friends who sent PM to me and lifted me up. Not to worry, as penny still happy here.

A real Happy Easter to all members!

The issue is too important and too personal, they are not worthy any answer.

Happy Easter to all members.

[liane]

Ignore them Ate Penny
Stay happy
Life is beautiful

[nigel]

There is no rule saying you must have children! I'm not sure I want kids to be honest..I'm too old!

[David House]

I am shocked that anyone would think that they had the right to criticise another for taking such a personal decision. Quite frankly it is no-one's business other than your own. I have not read the comments so take what you have said at face value. Which thread were they posted on?

I guess though that they were made by Filipinas, rather than by a guy! There does appear to be a very strange attitude amongst many of the traditional, conservative type of old fashioned Filipino communities that is the duty of women to produce kids, no matter what the family circumstances are, encouraged by the RC Church in the main. Fortunately the attitude of the younger generation is slowly changing, though their access to a decent sex education is still woeful.

I believe that the last thing the whole world needs, and the Philippines in particular, is more kids, so anyone who decides, for whatever reason not to have them gets my support.