Hi ate penny.dunno who`s trying to attack you but for sure having a baby means a lot of sacrifices as a lot of the members said its your own choice and you don`t have to explain anything to them as you don`t owe them anything.one thing about not having kids is you don`t get any strech marks and you don`t gain weight huhuhu apart from that you have all the freedom in the world nothing to worry about or no responsiblities when you`re on holiday.