I salute you ate Penny!
If you have chosen to have a baby then you wouldn't be here.. it's hard to give birth then not knowing what will happen to your baby, who will take care of him/her and what life she/he will have without his/her mother. She/he might be surrounded by bad people like... you know whoof course you wouldn't want that.
Even you don't have kids of your own, helping your pamangkins makes you a true mother and better than those who have kids but act like they are singles or no kids at all.
Just stay happy! xxx