Quote Originally Posted by keithAngel View Post
Rose to me Arthur was expressing the same concerns but there must have come a moment where he though br it nothing ventured nothing gained and sure enough overcame any objections in his own mind and as you see is happily married

Now maybe thats not you (I may be reading Arthur wrong to) but if you want something enough you can have it get him here if its what you both want and get him half a dozen paper rounds potman jobs etc untill he can keep you in the manner youve become acustomed to lol
I can deal with the objections in my own mind (fear is an illusion after all), but I don't have control over Immigration who may well have their own objections.

I wouldn't dream of making him work, I want him to have a happy life free from worry.

My original question was whether it can be done for less than the costs listed on one of the threads, but nobody's answered that!