Northerner, yes I agree take a while to make up your mind like I did.

It took almost two weeks after having met my wife to be for us to decide to get married.

It would have been easier had I imagined that might happen, if I had taken the paperwork I needed. As it was I had to contact friends at home to forward them to me.

Oh, that was 4 years ago, and every day I know more and more it was the best thing I have ever done !!!!