she talks to her family online almost everyday and she has a filipina friend here that speaks thesame dialect as her.
She went out with her 4 times and her friend introduced her with other filipina. She said she likes her but she don’t want to spend her money that’s why she don’t go out with her often. She is just so shy and last week, the first time she went to the doctor to joined she was so nervous and worried she might not understand them there when her english is very good. But after her first visit she is happy and said the staff there are friendly.
Last week also my daughter mentioned to us that her best friend and her grand dad thinks my wife is a mail order bride and asked her how much i paid to marry her and it made my wife so upset. She said you really think very low of me here. She said she needs to work coz my family might think bad about her and she said how can i work anyway when i dont have qualification and u dont allow me to.
She said that she is always at home when she was in the Philippines but atleast she has her sister, sister in law and her mum and neice with her and then her auntie just live a few steps from there house. But here she always alone, she don’t have freedom and she just talks to our parrot.
I know that she wants to work but I didn’t allow her at first but then I said she can if she really wants too but i wont be happy about it.
She said she wont work then if it will just upset me.
She also wants to go college where my daughter belongs to but told her that she can study online instead of going college here.
I don’t know but I think this are the reasons she is upset with me
Originally Posted by bbmick
