whew,after more or less 2 hours of dialling and since i really cannot wait for their reply to my email....i finally managed to talk to one of the staff in the appeals team in the UK Embassy in Manila, i told him the situation & he seemed surprised and said it shouldnt have happened and said according to their system everything seems to be ok and that my daughter should have the stamp(but he's not confirming it 100%), he scheduled my daughter to come to the embassy tomw w/her passport and see someone from their office who handles this type of problem....
Oh my God, another day of being so nervous again.....not knowing if they're gonna give us more headaches...