Hi Ladies

[nigel]

[SIZE="2"]This is an interesting subject cause I sometimes get the impression my Vimvie wants me to 'take control' and be in charge of everything.. Surely a woman wants control of her own life? She wants to make her own decisions..?

For a man lucky enough to be married to a filippina....this can be a bit..

Do filipina's like everything done for them? Or would rather have control themsleves..?

I think it's better and healthy to have control of your own life, it encourages confidence and is empowering! Would this make a filipina feel like she isn't being cared for?

My Vimvie has her own bank account rather than the joint account, she has her own income, soon she will passing her driving test and will have a car of her own...there is no limit to what she can achieve. This is whats good for people I think...it's growing, it's empowering, it boosts confidence.

Having someone simply care for you? Don't be such a wimp! Take control of your life! It will make you feel great. If someone has convinced you that your life is limited, or that you can't be successful...they LIED!![/SIZE]

[sars_notd_virus]

[SIZE="2"]This is an interesting subject cause I sometimes get the impression my Vimvie wants me to 'take control' and be in charge of everything.. Surely a woman wants control of her own life? She wants to make her own decisions..?

For a man lucky enough to be married to a filippina....this can be a bit..

Do filipina's like everything done for them? Or would rather have control themsleves..?

I think it's better and healthy to have control of your own life, it encourages confidence and is empowering! Would this make a filipina feel like she isn't being cared for?

My Vimvie has her own bank account rather than the joint account, she has her own income, soon she will passing her driving test and will have a car of her own...there is no limit to what she can achieve. This is whats good for people I think...it's growing, it's empowering, it boosts confidence.

Having someone simply care for you? Don't be such a wimp! Take control of your life! It will make you feel great. If someone has convinced you that your life is limited, or that you can't be successful...they LIED!![/SIZE]

I agreegood point!!
When you r married you are not joined at the hip..u r still 2 separate/different people but working together as a team