I dont really see the benifit of a pay site especially as the ladies arnt paying i dont think you will have more or less sucsess on a free site like Date in Asia look for the well written profiles and make sure your own includes some restrictions like "no married women" or whatever if the chats dont equal the quality of the profile it was probably written by some one else I wouldnt chat anymore on yahoo only skype but for all that nothing beats being in country and a recommendation virtual may be entertaining but real is better