Quote Originally Posted by sparky View Post
no i am not a perv (at least not on this occasion ) but i was in tesco today when i saw/heard a young lady who sounded filipino.

i thought about approaching her to ask if she lived local and about the local pinay community, for when my wife comes over soon (hopefully )

then i stopped myself cos i thought that she might think i was just trying to hit on her.

what do you ladies think?

how would you feel if some stranger approached you like this>??
Well, I'M not a lady ... but I really don't think there'd have been any harm in approaching this woman. Besides all you needed to do was simply explain to her WHY you'd done so, and ... on that basis ... she'd have no reason for suspecting you'd any ulterior motive in asking a perfectly question.