Got to agree with you here Triple, some of the gift ideas will scare a first time visitor to death.Don't anyone feel pressured into buying expensive gifts, it's not worth it.
I did take some nice perfume & nice chocolates, the first time, but my wife dosen't really like chocolate & she's not materialistic & neither am I.
If I was expected to bring everything & the kitchen sink, I would have put plan B into action, when I first met her, which was scarper!![]()