Hi South-east boy,
It is very difficult becouse if you are deloloping feelings for a woman and hope to meet, your heart will tell you to help, only you can decide this.
When I look back at my relationship and very short marriage, i just wish it was £94 that I had been scamed out of, yes I was warned by friends here but though It was investing in a happy future, good luck, we know there are plenty of genuine ladies looking for a loving partner.
Mick.