Believe me, Al ... I can sooo empathise with what you're saying. I'VE always BEEN a worrier. I really CARE about people [particularly my nearest and dearest]; equally, about others' feelings ... and somehow - although you and I have never met - it's long been my impression that YOU are that kind of bloke, also! Frequently, I'm left wondering WHY? ... why it invariably seems to be the most sensitive, caring folk that end up suffering untold mental anguish?
I'm very aware of the trials and tribulations you and Hanna have had to undergo since the beginning of this year, my friend ... and I fervently hope and pray that you will soon be in a position to bring your beloved wife and kids to the UK.
On a lighter note: Thankfully, both of us are blessed with a hale & hearty sense of humour - which is truly a Godsend!