Stag Night idea in the Phils ??

[mhaedonald]

Me and my asawa we're talking about that before...Before we get married what are we going to do with the celebration(stag party)...I asked him if he will go out with his friends and go to strip clubs? and if he do will he let me as well to go out with my friends..He said he is not going to strip club and they will just stay in bars with his friends or the second option is for me and him with friends will go to beach resort that my room is far from him then me and the girls have party there same as them hehe...He said he is happy to stay in bar with his friends with out strippers..Also he said if he go there he knows it will break my heart and feel bad on wedding day...Correct me if im wrong!but most of filipinas are Jealous,yes they do trust their husband but still hurt for us for them to go to strippers club before getting married,(or maybe its just me)..Maybe we wont say anything about it, but after you go to stripper stag party it wont be remove in our mind and break our heart,Also my family will think bad about it,Maybe if your filipina and her family is modern filipinoes,maybe it will be fine for them..Many are still old fashioned and religious..mostly in provinces

[Sim11UK]

Good to hear it from the womans point of view. Pretty much what I expected & how the family may react too...You need to be careful!

[somebody]

Good to hear it from the womans point of view. Pretty much what I expected & how the family may react too...You need to be careful!

Yeah it is good and I do think most of the Women on here would wonder why you need to do the stripper (plus the extras temptation) bit.

Im sure most guys if they did go out would have an ok time and get wrecked wake up a bit lighter in the pocket end of story..

But I really cant imagine to many families being impressed and many realtives may feel they cant comment due to how it would affect the daughters situation and how phills are with westerners in general normally very reserved. So it might seem no one offended untill..
Problem is once Phills feel someone has offended them or upset them they tend to take it very personally from what i have witnessed. Lose of face and macho phill guys who have possible access to weapons time to skidaddle me thinks bit hard when u 8 thousand miles away from home

Also what if you do need bailling out I cant imagine any family thinking highly of having to assit you if you were caught by the Phill vice squad I think you would be on your jack jones from there onwards..

Many Ladies i have spoken to including my Wife have at time had to put up with rude n insulting comments from passers by n worse neighbours as they with a "Joe" which often they never ever mention to their Mahal at the time..

In some areas "Joe" has a very bad rep for shall we say not following the same moral path as upstanding Phill families do. Remeber a family have to put up with possible snide comments and stares while your thousands of miles away..

[raynaputi]

when my bestfriend was getting married 2 years ago, we gave her a bachelorette party with a guy stripper..at the same time, her fiance then (now husband) also had a bachelor party with his friends with a female stripper too..i guess it's OKAY if both of u are open to the idea of having strippers AND WOULD NOT SLEEP with them (most stripper would ask for the wife-to-be or hubby-to-be to touch some private parts..just touch and not play!!!)..they say it's a test if both of them (a big part to the guys as always) are really ready and committed to get married..so if these kinds of Despedida de Soltero are just for fun and won't cause troubles to the couple, which they have both agreed to in the first place, then it's fine..if one of them disagree, then the other one should not do it..

[fred]

I cant remember what happened on my stag night in Manila...
So what I dont know cant hurt her right?

[somebody]

when my bestfriend was getting married 2 years ago, we gave her a bachelorette party with a guy stripper..at the same time, her fiance then (now husband) also had a bachelor party with his friends with a female stripper too..i guess it's OKAY if both of u are open to the idea of having strippers AND WOULD NOT SLEEP with them (most stripper would ask for the wife-to-be or hubby-to-be to touch some private parts..just touch and not play!!!)..they say it's a test if both of them (a big part to the guys as always) are really ready and committed to get married..so if these kinds of Despedida de Soltero are just for fun and won't cause troubles to the couple, which they have both agreed to in the first place, then it's fine..if one of them disagree, then the other one should not do it..

Very true I think theres a difference between a stripper who is hired or seen in a more "respectable" club and lets say going to a go go bar in a red light district in (excuse me for saying this) developing nation when you can probably feed n house her family for a few months with the money in your pocket and lets say more temptation will be put your way for extra fees/fines wheter you choose to pay them voluntary or not...

In the middle of the day strolling round Makati/glorietta if unaccompanied even for a few mintues i have ended up with young ladies chatting to us who maybe innocent may not be but im pretty sure some saw peso signs from the short convos we had!! So gould knows what AC n certains areas of manilas like

Ive heard plenty of stories of guys on stag do's or european away games with football who were happy for what happened on tour to stay on tour.
But their British Wifes, girlfriends and families were not so pleased when from watching strippers in a club, had turned into having their stuff nicked by the said stripper from their room in the morning!!