when my bestfriend was getting married 2 years ago, we gave her a bachelorette party with a guy stripper..at the same time, her fiance then (now husband) also had a bachelor party with his friends with a female stripper too..i guess it's OKAY if both of u are open to the idea of having strippers AND WOULD NOT SLEEP with them (most stripper would ask for the wife-to-be or hubby-to-be to touch some private parts..just touch and not play!!!)..they say it's a test if both of them (a big part to the guys as always) are really ready and committed to get married..so if these kinds of Despedida de Soltero are just for fun and won't cause troubles to the couple, which they have both agreed to in the first place, then it's fine..if one of them disagree, then the other one should not do it..
