Hey, if you're looking for a real headache.. sorry, some musings on the matter of love and committment (and if the moderators don't mind a slight diversion.. ) have a look at my blog on:

http://gavin-lifeintheshell.blogspot.com

I've given these matters quite a bit of thought lately.. so much thought in fact that I didn't really consider it a wise move to cut and paste them into here!