Young Mum needs advise please..

[KeithD]

Her husband has opposed to her idea of coming back to UK, and will not support her and the kids.

I'm not surprised as she'll be under UK law then, and if he returns to the UK, he'll have to pay for the kids

[Dee31]

I'm not surprised as she'll be under UK law then, and if he returns to the UK, he'll have to pay for the kids

I know boss. He have kids on his first marraige. And thus the reason why he decided to take his family to Philippines. To avoid paying child support. Now, poor Joy, she has two kids with him, and does not want to support her and the kids anymore. Is there a chance that she can come back to UK? Obviously her marraige did not work out. But hopefully the embassy will grant her visa to stay in UK for the sake of her Children?

[joebloggs]

only 22yrs old with 2kids and the fathers run off

i take it she didnt get ILR ? she only got a spouse visa ?

I dont think the embassy are going to give her a visa, why should they? and what visa ?

her visa has expired, shes not in the UK, and it looks like her marriage is over

as she knows her kids can come to the UK but she can't

i dont think there is much she can do, maybe if her aunt looked after her 2 kids, and she applied for a right to access them, not sure if thats even possible...

seek professional advice..

[Dee31]

only 22yrs old with 2kids and the fathers run off

i take it she didnt get ILR ? she only got a spouse visa ?

I dont think the embassy are going to give her a visa, why should they? and what visa ?

her visa has expired, shes not in the UK, and it looks like her marriage is over

as she knows her kids can come to the UK but she can't

i dont think there is much she can do, maybe if her aunt looked after her 2 kids, and she applied for a right to access them, not sure if thats even possible...

seek professional advice..

At the moment, she is prepared to do anything. But she is financially constraint right now. Life is hard in the Philippines, especially when you have two young kids. And while her strange husband is having the time of his life with another woman.

[KeithD]

At the moment, she is prepared to do anything. But she is financially constraint right now. Life is hard in the Philippines, especially when you have two young kids. And while her strange husband is having the time of his life with another woman.

Isn't that an arrestable offence in the Phil?

[Dee31]

Isn't that an arrestable offence in the Phil?

It is Boss Keith. She can file a case of concubinage against her husband. It is a criminal offence. Since they got married in the Philippines, I think she will have a good case against him. If she decided to stay, i reckon that will be her next step!

[KeithD]

It is Boss Keith. She can file a case of concubinage against her husband. It is a criminal offence. Since they got married in the Philippines, I think she will have a good case against him. If she decided to stay in Philippines, i reckon that will be her next step!

She may as well, teach the lowlife a lesson

[somebody]

It is Boss Keith. She can file a case of concubinage against her husband. It is a criminal offence. Since they got married in the Philippines, I think she will have a good case against him. If she decided to stay in Philippines, i reckon that will be her next step!

It may worth reminding him of the criminal offence and seeing if that gets him to assist her even if its temporarily and also getting divorced which he can do which would possibly help her move on forward..