Never understood guys who marry on the first trip I know it's costly going and back forth a lot, but it's a decision you could regret for a long time if you don't take your time to properly know her. How are you affording the wedding Tony? Ricky's right in what he says, but only you can make the decision if she's genuine or not. Tell her you love it so much in the Philippines that you want to come here rather than bring her to the UK. See what reaction you get. Might give you a clue