Hope people aren't getting the impression that I'm tarring them all with the same brush here My first experience is the complete opposite of what it is now. I'm not even sure my gfs parents would even allow her to come to England. I know I still have a long way to go before she's ready to marry, and even then I'm not 100% certain they will agree to it. Keeps me on my toes anyway So this time around things are more like you describe Maria and Cheeky