A lot of great points in this article

Just wanted to mention this though -

8. Are you prepared to have children, if so, are you prepared for many and various children?

Worried that my gf might want a big family, I recently asked her how many kids she'd like in the future. Just one, she said Bit of a relief, I can tell you. Other younger Filipinos that I've spoken to also don't seem to want big families like their parents before them. I guess they realise they can have better lives than their parents if they only have a few kids.