Also as we have mainly heard from Westerners. Make sure all parties are happy. Although the Wife misses Phill the friends,families and the people sights and smells etc.

The Wife has now spent 20 percent of her life in the Uk and made good friends, a career and way of living she has grown accustomed to. Not Just she can buy what she likes with in reason, she has a healthcare system which has benefited her greatly for various reasons. She can provide for her family out of her wage with ease.

Plenty of people who have every opportunity to return to their homeland and live the life of Reilly choose to stay in the UK or a third country..

On her recent trip back she had a great time and caught up with everybody but she only mentions later and discretly on im while there how the constant hey rich relative/friend i have a problem you will help me wont you which doesn't affect the majority of family and friends but...

When in Phill with the Missus often favours were asked and always of the Wife. Some people can tolerate this behaviour others cant tolerate this and I think my Wife would be in the latter group.

I would not even think about it if the Phill half does not have Citizenship of the non phills home country. Come across a couple of Wife's who have had to come back as the hubby was to unwell to return/earn some British currency to pay for various "issues" (The wife never asked the full details out of respect as they older ladies )

The Wife also from knows from the local group of one Lady who returned to the UK once the Hubby had popped his cloggs she simply preferred it here and only followed her hubby

The Wife also has as do some of her Brit Phill Mates, found she has got so many Friends and Family who have emigrated abroad that many dont live in Phil any more

Will they return who knows but I see quite a few older Phills living in the Uk and other western countries who seemed to have retired here..