Good question Ross! If I have baby, I will not work because I don't wanna feel dizzy and headache at work. I hate puyat and love to sleep.
I never go to work if I'm puyat.
I will just stay home and look after them.
If I need money to pay bills, I'll let hubby to make money for the meantime 'til kids turned 7.
You're right, it's not a good feeling to ask money from husband.
But when hubby given me financial freedom, that made me feel great as I want to manage my own money and he pays all the bills. That is more relaxing for me than giving me his wages and manage bills.
If no job, the government and hubby gives allowance and spend my time studying.