working and being a wife

[joebloggs]

I was referring more to the people who say, "Oh he just wants a filipina coz she'll do as she's told" Not so much the ladies on here. Just because they respect their husband's wishes on one aspect doesn't mean they're totally submissive to everything. I can't comment on ladies on here who have put up with from their husbands. The only one I remember was Allyn who has now left him.

what about respecting their wife's wishes ? , there are more than you think, thats my point they don't speak out, Allyn did and shes a strong filipina

[triple5]

what about respecting their wife's wishes ? , there are more than you think, thats my point they don't speak out, Allyn did and shes a strong filipina

Like others have said, its something that should be decided quite early on. There's no point bringing your wife here then laying down laws which will make her unhappy.

[triple5]

can you give me more detail

That's over 8000 posts you've got to search through now gwapito