Irish man madely in love

[gingxrick]

Hi badgrimly, welcome to the forum, having just read your story I'm looking forward to reading more, i take it you live in Ireland ( what part ) ? hope to chat soon. Ricky and Ging

[IainBusby]

Hi Dougie,
Welcome to the forum. You'll get all the advice you need right here, from people who've been there, done that and bought a few t-shirts along the way.
Louella & Iain.

[joebloggs]

Hi Dougie, 7 kids lol ! well i've been there to, but was just the one then, after chatting online for what must have been near a year, she told me , she had sometihng to tell me, took her about 3 hrs, the way she was chatting , i thought she had murdered someone, but finally told me she had a 12yr old son.. , is that all...
oh i've got a story to tell me not sure i should... but i would have had better odds of winning the lottery or being hit by lighting 7 times than us still being together, after months of chatting to her, told me to come and see her in a few months time or not at all, well life made sure i didnt see her to about 18 months later well a lot can happen in 18 months and it did, and even more after, well we've been married over 4yrs now, got a bb son, and 2 more kids.. life still difficult (money wise), but i know soon things will change for better...

so if i can beat the odds, and not give up, no matter what came in my way.. you can to.

its not the number of time life knocks you down that counts, its the number of time you get back up...

maybe i'll write a book one day, but who would believe it - fact or ficton..

[badgrimly]

Well thank you for making me welcome i do appreciate it i have felt very alone and its nice to meet people that have experienced the same heaven/hell that i have.

I went back on the 10 of october and we had a house rented she met me at the airport and she looked very beautiful as always i couldent believe my luck when i saw her waiting for me but i always say that when i see her we settled in and in a very short while i started getting death threats from her ex, considereing he had abanded her over 10 years before that i have a feeling he got the sent of money from a forigner or something along them lines, by the way this woman brought up 7 children on her own by taking in washing making and selling food and any other normal way she could, i know people here cant bring up kids with plenty of money and every concievable help she is a very special lady i once asked her had she ever thought of going on the game she looked surpirsed and said no because she would have to face her children and she couldent do that.

Well we went to the burungi that is probibly spelt wrong but im sure you know what i mean and she blattered her ex it means to report his behavoure i think we also went to the police as the death threats where becoming a daily thing on all the cell phones we owned, i stayed for the full two months and we got married and got the registarar to not register the wedding till my divorce is compleated in the uk i returned in December it broke my heart to be without my soulmate and i felt very depressed rattling around this little house that i live in.

you know we talk every night and every morning when i am not there and she has never missed one time even though she has to get up at 4:00am in the morning and until i bought her a computer she would walk to the nearest internet cafe, now you tell me how many women has that kind of devotion or love apart from the times i have been there she has been doing this for over a year now.

Well my plan is to get my divorce through which is on going and i will get my son and my half of the house and then i most make some major decisions

1 do i go over there buy a house in her name and a car start a small business and live there for a while

2 Try to bring her home on a spouse visa the whole immigration thing scares the bejesus out of me and with me being disabled i have no income, SO does that mean if your disabled you cant marry an Asian? if so there is a lot of disabled people that are going to be very upset

Well this is the bulk of my story its still ongoing and i talk to her every night and every morning i miss her like the very air i breath and know that i cannot live without her sounds a bit OTT but its the truth i never experienced a love like this before and im happy to say its two sided , Oh iv had my decenters two my adult son 29 thinks that she is only after my money and that im daft but he doesent know this gentle wonderful woman like i do, any way im ready for the brickbats and the like be gentle with me hehehe oh i tried to put our picture up as my avatar couldent find the button mybe not a full member or something thanks for reading my tale of woe Dougie ....

[eljean]

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