some would go their way to get a male stripper for the bride..purely for fun though and nothing more than a strip show..like what we did for my bestfriend (only that her mom attended the bridal shower, which none of us thought she'd actually arrive, so a bit embarrassing for her! haha )...but usually, the despedida de soltera just involves games about the bride, lots of food, some drinks, chitchats with friends, and videoke...