It has been hard for me as I stated in post 15.
Only my family has a problem, she has loads of work friends and where we work in the same place, they all know Jane as my wife and nobody has a problem with us.
I have, in fact Jane and I have both tried so dam hard to get them to accept us and it is 'us' because we come as a package, you can't accept one with out the other.
Together we stand and all that.
Of course I love my kids but, they made me choose and Jane will always come on top.
In an ideal world we would all get along nicely, there is still no reason why not in the future.
My 26yo Daughter texted me to say 'I don't have a Dad anymore and I have deleted you from my phone'.
I replyed and said 'OK Emma, we are here and remember we love you'.
We believe they will come round to our thinking and realise life is just too short.
It's all very sad. I'm so disappointed, I would never of talked to my Dad like that, I guess it's the world we live in here, the UK.
I can't imagine this happening in the Philippines, being spoken to like that.
Anyway Like Jane say's 'we got jobs, our health and a great future all mapped out and all our plans have come to bear fruit so far'.
My ray of sunshine
