Quote Originally Posted by stevewool View Post
i thought just like you do about the family, its hard not too, my thoughts are now, emma makes me happy always smilling and i know my life will be great once she is here have you thought about bringing her here
Still not sure Steve, several things have happened which make me question whether I am being used as a cash machine and seen as a way out of poverty and the slums. I can understand that, but am not going to make any life changing commitment until I am sure. I don't want this to sound like paranoia, I'm just making sure I have my eyes open and checking facts.
Don't get me wrong, she has may great qualities too and is always there when I need her. I'm just getting a bit fed up of supporting her for the last 8 months or so as she hasn't had a job. Hopefully, she will get this job in the call centre and will be less of a burden on me.
I agree that if your g/f makes you happy then it's all worthwhile and the other things shouldn't really matter.