Think if you are serious, you have to forget some of these thoughts, we may have all had.
It's not that easy to get a decent paying job & yes you will probably have to pay out first.system.
My wife is working now part-time & she's paid a pittance. Wont keep her in food, let alone pay for all her living expenses & she lives a simple life...So forget about being able to save, as I think you mentioned in a previous post.
You'll probably still have to support her financially.
