We'll seeOriginally Posted by bornatbirth
....is it the waltons or is it the von traps
We'll see....is it the waltons or is it the von traps
12 kidsMy wife does not want me to have the snip as she says she may want one dozen kids
I said I may want the snip if we have had three kids.
Well, having lots of kids is financially difficult in the UK but easier in the Phils., one is a handful
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not so sure, you would get child benefit for each of them til their what 16, free NHS treatment and schooling, and maybe even tax creds.
not so sure about snipping anything, but my misses had one of these implants done
http://www.bbc.co.uk/health/physical..._implant.shtml
I'm not a spring chicken anymore either.....thanks for the implant info.12 kids
not so sure, you would get child benefit for each of them til their what 16, free NHS treatment and schooling, and maybe even tax creds.
not so sure about snipping anything, but my misses had one of these implants done
Are you trusting it as your only contraception?
it lasts 3yrs and only doingonce in 3yrs helps to not have more kids
(another ad, misses dont have tampo days) can't say it works for all thou
Sounds like you're relaxing and not over-exerting yourselfit lasts 3yrs and only doing
(another ad, misses dont have tampo days
i will never ever have the snip
you never know what life can throw at you
I'd recommend sleeping with one eye open then during tampo periods
Keith - Administrator
well i am not having the chop and all i was saying on here is my worries for the future of myself and emma and any future child, dont get me wrong england is still a good place to be, to bring up a family, like someone says free this and free that, i want only what i think we are entitled too, if you dont work and live on the dole and dont want anything england is great for those, but i want a better future for myself and partner and i think that is in the phils, but not for kids,
Why not for kids?
Kids have respect for elders over there.
Why would you need the snip anyway... a woman has other holes
Keith - Administrator
well boss man yes they do
indeed they do have more respect then the kids here , over there everyone seems to want to send there kids to private school for a better future, its just trying to get everything right for the future in my little world
Hi
I know how it feels like, I have no children too. My husband has had a vasectomy before 25 years ago. Me and my hubby had a big discussions before we got married that he cant have children anymore. Having children is wonderfull but if ,she loves you she will accept who you are. Now we are happily together and always in love.
( as a filipino you cannot avoid your relatives to ask you some questions about having children. I usually reply them im happy not to have one.)
Each to their own ... and if both partners are happy with that, thenHi
I know how it feels like, I have no children too. My husband has had a vasectomy before 25 years ago. Me and my hubby had a big discussions before we got married that he cant have children anymore. Having children is wonderfull but if ,she loves you she will accept who you are. Now we are happily together and always in love.
( as a filipino you cannot avoid your relatives to ask you some questions about having children. I usually reply them im happy not to have one.)so be it!
to the filipinouk forum.
she doesnt sound happy to me and regrets not having any kids?.
i have learnt to do what my wife says!
Hi Steve,
I respect your decision of not having any kids of Emma.
.. but you have to consider Emma's thoughts and feelings either.
You should've told her for the first place right from the start that you want no kids.
Being honest in the relationship is very important and you know that yourself BUT you should've opened out more about this very complicated issue even before.
But having said that, it's still up to both of you what's the best thing to do.
I know how hard the responsibilities of looking after kids, etc. but perhaps Emma will be happier if she has at least your own child.
I was so bored when I came here for the first few months but I did feel a lot happier and stronger when I had my first child.
It was too much on the plate having a baby yet it's really rewarding and worth it to have one... and now, I have 2
Just imagine a house with no kids, I'll be bored.
They are my pride, my everything..
It just takes time for you Steve to get used to have a newborn baby in the house.
But at the end of the day, it's still your child and no one else can make you happier than seeing your baby's smile... and scream?
Oh well, they do grow very fast.
They won't be like that forever.
Just take life easy.
I don't want the both of you to rush about any decisions that you have to make.
I also don't want the both of you to regret things at the end and it's too late.
Goodluck...
Everything has a reason...
And hope you'll choose the right path on to your decision
Taka care now & Bye!.... Venus
i don't want to ruffle any feathers or anything ... but ....
I was born when my dad was 37 ... or maybe 38.
I got taunted in school coz my dad was old. In secondary school especially, he was remarkably out of touch.
hmmm
When I was 10, he was only 48. I was already being taunted for it.
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flip to my friend in the Phils. I was living in the same subdivision as a man - a white guy, whose wife is 23, and the guy is 68. Personally, ... that's a massive age gap, but whatever - their life.
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anyway ... so the girl gets pregnant right? In like 8 years, the dude dies and the girl is a single mother.
That's a great way to love your child, right? Be so old when he/she's born that you die when he/she's in his/her formative years... the child is 8 years old and daddy dies of "natural causes" or Old Age. Great dad.
Sorry for being so blunt. It's just my view.
thanks for listening.
James "tell-the-truth-whether-you-like-it-or-not" Hubbard!
im eldest in family and father died when i was 2 years old not from old age (he's just 22 then) but from accident..we grew up without a dad beside us but then we were loved by all of our friends, relatives, and family and supported us as we growing up...i know it had been hard for mum but look at the bright side...she was not left alone by my dad she have us and she's happy having us (good remembrance from my dad)...having a kind of life i have right now (my husband and baby) is more than enough to thank my dad for bringing me out in this world
just sharing my experience here
Well if the kid when it's born can't go out to hunt it own food, then it's not the parents fault
It's not that long ago that humans were lucky to live till 40, most fathers died around the age of 30.
In the animal kingdom it's usually the oldest male that mates with all the females, so all you guys would still be virgins while your dad/grandad was still putting it about
Keith - Administrator
yes, i really hope that they don't have to endure that taunting from other kids.
... conversely, I became a father when I was barely 25 - an ideal age in my opinion - andi don't want to ruffle any feathers or anything ... but ....
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flip to my friend in the Phils. I was living in the same subdivision as a man - a white guy, whose wife is 23, and the guy is 68. Personally, ... that's a massive age gap, but whatever - their life.
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anyway ... so the girl gets pregnant right? In like 8 years, the dude dies and the girl is a single mother.
That's a great way to love your child, right? Be so old when he/she's born that you die when he/she's in his/her formative years... the child is 8 years old and daddy dies of "natural causes" or Old Age. Great dad.
Sorry for being so blunt. It's just my view.
thanks for listening.
James "tell-the-truth-whether-you-like-it-or-not" Hubbard!it goes against the NATURAL order of things for
s of 60+ to take up the mantle of parenthood again at THEIR time of life. I for one, certainly wouldn't want to
- and - in so saying - could well find myself ruffling more than a few feathers too. But, as I mentioned in a previous post on this topic, I guess it's a matter of couples choosing for themselves.
I'm going through the concerns of having a vasectomy at the moment, our little boy is due next month and we already have a little girl from Marvie's previous marriage. This for me is going to be enough, and I want to have a vasectomy after that, but having been told by a few people not to take it too lightly, and now reading some regrets on here is making me a think a little. I can say 100% I don't want more then 2 children, but obviously no idea what the future may hold.
lots of good reading a good letter there james looking to the future hubbard,the end of the day its down to two people what is best for them, now and the future, and for now we have each other and thats a great start
I know a guy who has just turned 65 and has a boy and girl who are 3 and 4 with his 25yr old wife. It's never too late, I guess, but you have to consider your own mortality and how long you'll be around for your kids.
*Absolutely, Paul ...
i fully agree
i have 4 kids iwas 23 wen first 1 born and 40 wen my last was born wen im 70 my last child will be 30 whats wrong with that, as for kids getting bullied about ther parants age what a load of rubbish, and if you do get bullied over something stand up for yourselfs and dont let them get the better of u.
Very well said!
I salute you for being brave!
Taka care now & Bye!.... Venus
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