in a perfect world yes but i guess you cant always help who you fall in love with.
we have had a brief chat about this before steve- as others have said there are no easy answers but i do believe its hard to ignore a ladys body clock if having kids is what she really really wants
as to being an older dad- i think that its a good thing rather than bad- more mature and i think a baby would be more precious to you than if you was in say your 20's
sure theres more money involved
but theres also more love - if your both happy then money isnt important- and you will always find a way.
even if you decide that having babies isnt what you want then nature sometimes has a way of making those decisions for you
whatever you do- good luck- and remember even if you decide no to have babies -the practice always comes in handy![]()