babies

[sparky]

If I was in that situation I would have specifically looked for a single Filipina who didn't want children, then that issue won't arise.

in a perfect world yes but i guess you cant always help who you fall in love with.

we have had a brief chat about this before steve- as others have said there are no easy answers but i do believe its hard to ignore a ladys body clock if having kids is what she really really wants

as to being an older dad- i think that its a good thing rather than bad- more mature and i think a baby would be more precious to you than if you was in say your 20's

sure theres more money involved
but theres also more love - if your both happy then money isnt important- and you will always find a way.
even if you decide that having babies isnt what you want then nature sometimes has a way of making those decisions for you

whatever you do- good luck- and remember even if you decide no to have babies -the practice always comes in handy

[KeithD]

in a perfect world yes but i guess you cant always help who you fall in love with.

If you're using the internet to find a lady, of course you do. If they don't fit the basic criteria that you must find out within the first few days, you move on. You can't fall in love that fast otherwise everyone would love me

As for the question, if the girl wants babies and you knew before you got married, then it is kind of selfish to deny her a family.

Better still.... pas over the baby crap, and adopt a Filipino boy who's just starting to like football

[gWaPito]

If you're using the internet to find a lady, of course you do. If they don't fit the basic criteria that you must find out within the first few days, you move on. You can't fall in love that fast otherwise everyone would love me

As for the question, if the girl wants babies and you knew before you got married, then it is kind of selfish to deny her a family.

Better still.... pas over the baby crap, and adopt a Filipino boy who's just starting to like football

From the amount of groveling posts I see directed at you boss man, I thought they did love you?

[KeithD]

From the amount of groveling posts I see directed at you boss man, I thought they did love you?

Only when they want Rep