Originally Posted by
stevewool
i know if emma reads this i will be in for the third degree but whats life without a good debate,babies and the muture man ????,and i dont mean smelly and mouldy too,living in england all my life and had my family who are all adults know well sometimes they are, i feel that having babies again at my time is not right for me, i look at it this way , the cost in money terms and years too. i feel i am being selfish to emma who has no children and i know would love to have a child, getting someone pregnant is so easy to some of us but its the looking after that is the hardest,the plans was to be here for a few more years saving hard then move to the phils with enough to make a good life there, i feel the best place for a child is here but then my whole life has changed i must then stay here and my dream will never happen, emma knows this and she seems ok but i see it in her face the sadness. i am being selfish
