Guys only question on LOVE (..but women can read)

[triple5]

I've put 'before we met' but the truth is I was in love with Vimvie BEFORE I'd even heard of her! BEFORE I'd even seen or heard her! I dreamed and had a strong desire for a girl like Vimvie..She was on my mind before and I therefore attracted her into my life! Vimvie herself must have dreamed of coming to Britain! The thoughts come first...the attraction follows! It's fact as far as I'm concerned!

Same here, been thinking of mine my whole life....so how did I attract so many negative women before her

[stevewool]

i think there must be loads on here that are like me and you i think, the divorce/ midlift crisis or what, mine was a divorce and both to blame, i thought our marriage was good yes hard work and seeing each other not as often as we should because of shifts and we grew apart, plus i did not listen to her and i did not understand her new friends and why cant i understand her wanting to go away at weekends for work related things, we men are all daft buggers all we want is love , well after 2 failed mariages and at the age where there is now need to impress anyone take me as i am sort of thing , i am a happy bloke found someone that loves me for who i am, we have good days and bad days but after explaining we are soon back on track

[bornatbirth]

im not sure what to say?

it must of been after seeing her for the first time, when i first saw her i knew she was for me

Same here, been thinking of mine my whole life....so how did I attract so many negative women before her

C'mon i know what women you was really thinking of

[mistermatty]

i had just come out of a couple of bad thai relationships when a friend of mine suggested i come over to the PI. i got there a day before i met up with him as he was due to fly in 24 hours later. i got talking to this girl and talked and talked- i was never looking for anything at all but that night i only had eyes for her.

from my point of view i guess it was love at first sight- i wasnt overawed by the beauty of asian girls- i had just survived 2 of them and lived ( just ) to tell the tale after spending a few years living in thailand.

alli can say is i was smitten but cautious- i think myrna waa cautious more than smitten but over a lot of yahoo chats and texts we found we had a lot in common in what we wanted

the rest is history- and 4 trips later here we are married with a visa in hand- and in a few weeks she will be coming here to start our new life together

Guess i have a lot to answer for !!!

[sparky]

Guess i have a lot to answer for !!!

about 10k so far

[nigel]

Same here, been thinking of mine my whole life....so how did I attract so many negative women before her

I think it's a cycletic nature of our minds! You get women who seem to date more and more men who are violent! In her mind she is thinking 'I always end up with violent men!' this smacks of 'always with violent men!' and so that will be her lifestyle until she changes her thinking..I'm convinced it works like that!

[Notavirusalso]

skype videocall has a lot to answer for

[Notavirusalso]

Same here, been thinking of mine my whole life....so how did I attract so many negative women before her

ahh that explains a lot

[SteveL]

Like some, the Philippines wasnt on my radar, all i "knew" was the old corny jokes of getting married to a Filipino when I was 95 and she was 22 etc.
Then a good friend disappeared for 6 weeks, didnt tell anyone anything. Literally, we called police, hospitals etc. Then he resurfaced and announced he was engaged to a Filipino.
A long photo show later, I was interested the the paradise island(s) I had just seen and the beautiful girls etc. After learning from my friend he had found his love from www.asiankisses.de I joined. First girl was a disaster - asked for money straight away. Second girl was/is my fiance and the rest, as they say is history. I hoped for love before we met, had constant lust when we met and total respect because she made it clear she wasnt a good time girl and it was marriage or nothing.

Were getting married 7th August!!