sending a income

[Notavirusalso]

You mention about doing a expenditure list
That is so demeaning, Kieth. I can't imagine saying that to my wife and I can imagine even thinking that
I have trusted my wife totally from the start. You can't go into a relationship thinking you will be riped off
It will never work, Kieth, sleeping with one eye open, checking your change etc etc.

The magic word is trust I never question her, NEVER.

Ditto Sir

[stevewool]

thanks sim and dont worry about any outbursts just hope your wishes come true soon, some have, you have a beautiful wife

[Sim11UK]

thanks sim and dont worry about any outbursts just hope your wishes come true soon, some have, you have a beautiful wife

Thanks Steve

[stevewool]

well to answer your thread i was there over xmas and new year and my first ever trip to the phils , i am lucky in staying in nice place i own timeshares in differant parts of the world so the cost of hotels and resorts was very little but if i had to cost it all the trip to borocay and staying in the nice hotels you say and food over £5000, but i did save also along time for this plus it was a belated 50th birthday preasent to myself

[Notavirusalso]

phew.. I was staring to think my Mother brought me up wrong...teaching me morals and respect, treating others as you would like to be treated yourself and even putting others before ones self...guess i can put my tar brush away too

[stevewool]

a good read keithangel, first it was cuation with me and you do worry also but after time you do get to know each other better, i bet there are lots who have been burnt by someone before they meet there one and only, just keep both eyes open and enjoy what you both can bring into your new life for each other

[keithAngel]

Could either of you Gentlemen point me in the direction of my "Expenditure" post ?

[gWaPito]

Could either of you Gentlemen point me in the direction of my "Expenditure" post ?

I can't find it either, and your name come to mind Sorry Kieth, it was convient at the time

[keithAngel]

Thanks for the sorry gwap accepted nice to be in your mind

P.S my Daughter says your attitude is great much better than mine and she would dearly love to share finances with you as I sometimes ask her inconvienient questions

[gWaPito]

Thanks for the sorry gwap accepted nice to be in your mind

Im sat here laughing, Kieth, imagining you looking through your previous posts, thinking 'I don't remember saying that'
It was said but, I can't remember by whom.

[keithAngel]

Im sat here laughing, Kieth, imagining you looking through your previous posts, thinking 'I don't remember saying that'
It was said but, I can't remember by whom.

How inconvienient

[gWaPito]

Thanks for the sorry gwap accepted nice to be in your mind

P.S my Daughter says your attitude is great much better than mine and she would dearly love to share finances with you as I sometimes ask her inconvienient questions

You are going to ask those inconvenient questions to your Daughter, for sure!

[Steve.r]

Hi gwap. yes, I understand what you meant. I also trust my Mahal. But I still like to know for my own piece of mind, that way I can budget/plan for the nicer things and treats.
I guess we are all sure of our partners because of our trips and daily communication. For those who might read this as noobs or early in relationships, who are being asked to send money, this thread has a very cautionary air about it and highlights real experienced views.

[keithAngel]

You are going to ask those inconvenient questions to your Daughter, for sure!

You mean untill she matures and learns to balance her books

[gWaPito]

Like others have said, it all depends on the stage of the relationship and I was lucky to spend a lot of quailty (months at a time) time with Jane before we married.
2 weeks here and 2 weeks there was not enough for me It would of been like 'honeymoon' vacation each time, that is not real living.
We played house and got to know everything about eachother, warts and all

So when we married there would be no surprises no unusual habits.

I was drifting off the point of the question, sorry about that.

In our house, we have the monthly direct debit list on the fridge, we know when bills are due and how much money is needed in that account at any given time in the month.
Both of us know exactly what we got, or what we haven't got to spend. Everything is an open book.

[stevewool]

having the time to spend getting to know one another is very difficult for many of us on here its either by phone or the internet and if we are lucky 4 weeks a year seeing one another, but you know what, i know i want to spend the rest of my life with emma wher ever we both may be, like you say gwap, i want a open book in our life too

[gWaPito]

having the time to spend getting to know one another is very difficult for many of us on here its either by phone or the internet and if we are lucky 4 weeks a year seeing one another, but you know what, i know i want to spend the rest of my life with emma wher ever we both may be, like you say gwap, i want a open book in our life too

Good man, Steve
You have been very open on here with your threads and posts, Steve. I can't see you being any different in real life, we are what we are, we can't change what we are

I have been stung just like you We can't change Steve, just be true to yourself and have the belief in your heart that 'this is it!'. This is so important, you must believe this really is it. So much bad karma is brought on by 'ILL' thinking.

You are a very nice man Steve, I'm sure it will all work out for both you and Emma

[icecreamlady]

hello there,

i have read that someone sends 300 quid a month. well, it all depends upon the situation of your girlfriend. If shes paying everything like rent, utility bills and more, that is enough. however, if she is not paying for her rent and lives with a relative, 100 to 150 quid a month is enough. Just save your money when your girlfriend comes to England

[keithAngel]

hello there,

i have read that someone sends 300 quid a month. well, it all depends upon the situation of your girlfriend. If shes paying everything like rent, utility bills and more, that is enough. however, if she is not paying for her rent and lives with a relative, 100 to 150 quid a month is enough. Just save your money when your girlfriend comes to England

And when she comes?

[bornatbirth]

And when she comes?

shopping spree

[triple5]

And when she comes?

Give yourself a pat on the back

[gWaPito]

Give yourself a pat on the back

Sleep

[fred]

And when she comes?

I nearly asked that question myself Keith but thought it might be a bit personal..
I`ll wait for the answer though...While Im here.

[Les_lady888]

Sending money to your loved ones in the Phils. is such a nice generous act. But to how much is a thing you and only you can determine unless you have lots of extra funds to waste that you wouldn't even bother and won't even mind to ask where will the money go and where will it be used.

I know it would take LOTS of TRUST and LOVE for a guy to send some of his earnings to a filipina who is thousands of miles away from him. Some guys may have that trust and love in their hearts but still hesitate to send money maybe because of a bad experience.

I'd say that every filipina, whatever her motives is, will always appreciate her bf's generosity. Getting to experience a better life because of you sharing a part of your blessings will always be appreciated by your partner. Sadly though, some filipinas abuse this generosity.

[stevewool]

hello there , its nce to have feedback from others on here and not just your partner, some of us have been burned before and it does take time to find someone again and having that trust , but it does come back its working together and always asking what you feel you should ask even if it hurts you,

[fred]

Thanks..I`ll ask our doctor..None of my kids have had the first 6 vaccines mentioned and neither have I !!

£150 a month for 6 adults plus all the kids.

hello pretty filipina, im a westerner heres your £10 a week, im sure you can manage on that.

how cheaply one can live, doesnt mean we want our filipina wife too or are some just tight s

He was talking about what his wife`s auntie earns in order to support her family..
Are you suggesting that the walking ATM machine should now step in and support the lot of them?
This thread is hilarious!

Going to other extreme.. A mate sends his Mrs and kids 150K a month which is loose change to him..
She is really bad at online poker!

[triple5]

Those who are usually over the generous in the early days are often the ones who end up with nothing and a broken heart. Heard a few stories of guys who went above and beyond fortheir wives and families, and ended up saddled with whole communities

An aussie in davao bought his missus a mango farm, went back to OZ for a few months and when he returned there were 30+ people on the farm, sitting around doing nothing while the fruit was rotting away. He let her keep the farm and vowed never to return to the country again.

A German guy bought 2 houses for his missus next door to each other, another one for the family. Again, returns back after a trip to Germany and finds there's 30+ people living in the two houses. Last I heard he'd had enough, told her she coud keep both houses, he just wanted out.

Then there's the really unlucky ones who get bumped off for the insurance pay out

[stevewool]

well i was lucky then all it cost me on my first venture with a filipina was a elvis cd, my exwives and a old phone, we have to trust our hearts but also trust our own feelings too