Quote Originally Posted by aromulus View Post
Correct me if I am wrong......

1 - You have known her for years....

2 - You have never met her personally...

3 - She cheated on you in the past...

I suppose that you have also been sending her money from time to time to insure her faithfulness, buy cellphone loads, pay for internet charges, the roof blowing in the typhoon, carabao needing veterinary attention...... Blah, blah, blah....

This berd is just one hugely humungous red flag.....

And you still reckon you are not being scammed.....
I send her £10-20 a months, thats all she need so she can text me.

Its only recently I wanted to send her a laptop. Apart from that she can pretty much manage without my money.

Like I said earlier, just because you never caught your girl cheating it doesnt mean she has never cheated on you. It can be quite shocking how many are capable of cheating and you will never know until you do some detective work and caugh them. To tell you the truth I have sex with a few working girls already, she probably hate me for it. The difference between us is she got caught and I didnt.

If only I decided to say I trust her 100% like many would say full trust is important, I wouldnt have known all this. Infact Im glad I found out, it was good for both of us. It shows whats our love is all about. Its probably is the ultimate test how love can survive.

Im happy to know it happened now than it happening later. But regardless, we are working things out for the better.

People make mistake, whats important is they learn from it. I know I had and I know I will learn.