hi there chris , we all make mistakes , and we all look some of us have been very lucky finding someone and its a one on one thing , i too have been burnt , just a little , but it did not put me off, i trust emma with my life , she has given me no concern at all , i have been looking before emma , its like a kid in a sweet shop so many atractive girls saying hi to me , i was spoilt but its just like so many men saying hi and making all these promises to those girls, whats right for you is not right for others , go with your heart chris , yes you may be burnt but who has not in this life , what you dont know dont hurt and what is the past stays in the past if you can both live with that in mind then you have a chance , good luck