Well it seems this was not so long ago i posted this thread, Looking at it now its looking like we now have the visa but will not know for sure until the courier has delivered it? But my word only 2 days it is amazing,
thanks to all who gave there help and i am sure karma came in somewhere, I am so glad my wife and son and i are able to go and live back in the UK together, We may even end up back in the PI in the future to live who knows? but as long as we are together and happy thats all that counts,
Thanks again